Spring BREAK!!

Yes, “break” is the operative word in that phrase and very much needed. It’s been a very productive (and because of it) busy year so far. I can’t believe I’m just over a month away from being done with my first year of Graduate School!! But this post isn’t about grad school, only what I’m going to do on my BREAK. Most is relaxing and fun, some is work/school related.

  • Saturday – clean the apartment and pack for a week in Austin.
  • Sunday – *Spring Forward with the time* Pack up the car and head to Austin!! (I might leave on Saturday if I can get it all done early enough). Crawfish time at Sam’s Boat (let me know if you’d like to join us).
  • Monday – Do a little clean up at my parent’s house and do a little research on permits for our builders. No, they haven’t started yet. 😦
  • Tuesday – Go chill out and rest with Cathy T at an undisclosed location. Hopefully, the sun will be out and I can do a little basking in it.
  • Wednesday – Trish’s birthday. Not sure what’s on the docket for that day so I’m leaving it all opened up for family.
  • Thursday – If something happens to our plans on Tuesday, we’ll go today. If not, I need to spend a little time at the UT library for my Research Techniques class. They have at least one thing I need that only exists in about 9 libraries around the world. In the evening, I’ll be getting together with “the girls”. It’s gotta happen! 😀
  • Friday – I can’t remember what I’m thinking about for Friday. Maybe nothing at all yet.
  • Saturday – St. Patrick’s day will be spent at the same bat time at the same bat place. If you know what I’m talking about (or call/text me or Cathy T, we’ll tell you) and want to join us, COME ON!! Be ready to start early, though. 🙂
  • Sunday – pack it all up and head back to Huntsville. Wow, that went by fast and furious but it was a really great week! (yes, that’s what I’m predicting I’ll say.)
  • Yes, it looks like a full week but for the most part, all this stuff only occupies a few hours of each day so don’t think my dance card is all full without you. There are SO many people I want to see and visit with that have a less flexible schedule due to work or kids. Please call me and tell me when you’re free and I’ll make sure we can visit during that time, even on days that seem like Tuesday or Wednesday.

    I really want this Break to be kind of epic. But not with activities so much – more time with friends. Lord knows, I can’t afford a whole bunch of activities and I have NO desire to spend a whole lot of time in the SXSW scene. I guess it’s because I’m not sure when I’ll be back in Austin and I want to make the most of every moment I can with all my friends. The next time may not be until late June or even July!

    Love you, mean it!
    ~C

    Researching and rambling

    I’m a rambler. I can talk in circles and absolutely know that I am, and still not be able to stop myself. I think it’s because I have a lot of random thing always swimming through my head and when I converse, they all seem to come to the surface.

    I’m in Research Techniques this semester and in this class, I have the semester to research a topic with a question and write about it in a higher level than I would have as an undergraduate. The higher level writing is not easy for someone that rambles. I’m going to take advantage of this medium to do some of my rambling and refining so it doesn’t show up in the assignments as much I have to turn in. Please excuse the construction.

    My topic is about English composer Ralph Vaughan Williams. He wrote a lot of music based on the English folk songs he collected. He also lectured regularly and wrote quite a few articles on the subject of English nationalism and compositions. In his lectures and writings, he talks quite a bit about how England was a nation without its own music for many years because English composers would go to France and Germany to study the art of composition and bring back those French & German styles and try to write English music with those styles. He criticized English composers for not being true to their heritage and not writing music based on English styles yet still calling their music English.

    What I’m trying to find is a composer RVW referred to in his criticisms and compare one of his (or hers, I guess, although the number of women composers in England during that time is small) pieces to a piece by Vaughan Williams.

    Here’s the hard part – RVW was very critical but he was still an Englishman during the early 1900s. They didn’t name names back then, they were true gentlemen. Lots and LOTS of reading to determine who some of these composers may be. Bonus if I find one that incorporated folk songs into the European style.

    Thoughts?

    Feeling a little accomplished. :)

    Today is a beautiful day. The sun is out, it’s 70 degrees and the breeze is nice so I have my windows open, enjoying the weather. On top of that, I got quite a few things accomplished today!

    Everyday, I eat breakfast. I have two basic choices I stick to – egg and bacon or yogurt with granola and honey. I drink either tea or coffee but only one cup. Today, was an egg and bacon with Earl Grey tea kinda day. Why bacon? Because it tastes good and it’s protein. I think you should start your day with protein and a food you enjoy. For lunch, I had a piece of white fish and salad with a large glass of water. My friend Monica sent me some dark chocolate covered coffee beans for Christmas so I had a few of those, too. Yummy!!

    Clipford has been cooped up way too much. When we were in Austin, I took him to Zilker Park and he got to run and fetch the ball and had a great time. There’s a dog park here in Huntsville and I hadn’t been able to find it (no one could give me the exact location – “it’s over in the Avenues, where one of the letter roads ends”, they’d say) so today, I was determined to find it to let Clipford go run a bit. And after about 20 minutes of being in the wrong part of the 23rd Street, I found it! It’s basically at the intersection of N 1/2 Street and 23rd Street. The address is 2335 23rd street but if you plug that into Google Maps or a GPS, it’s takes you for a bit of a wild goose chase. The park was empty so he fetched and explored for about 20 minutes and seemed okay to come home. Without other dogs there, he seemed kinda bored with fetching the ball after 20 minutes. Maybe that was just me. We’ll be going there regularly because it’s really nice there. There are trees so going on a hot day won’t be so bad. There are a few benches and a doggie water fountain. Not so bad for this little town.

    After we came home and had lunch, I took all my recycling to the recycling center. It filled my back seat! To get all that stuff out of my apartment and make room to walk was such a relief! It has been way too cluttered around here. Yesterday, my friend Rachel helped me take a bunch of stuff (including my bins of Christmas decorations) to storage so there is quite a bit more room in my apartment again. Mind you, I have a lot of stuff so it’s still cramped but it’s more cleared out than it was when I got back from break. Little steps.

    I paid bills and did some yoga practice. This summer was emotionally rough and I found a Groupon or something for a week of yoga practice at Round Rock Yoga Room. I LOVE IT THERE!! It’s not like a club or the gym classes – it’s a true yoga community. I went twice over the break and was greeted by name and with loving hugs. I wish there was a place like it. There is a yoga studio here but the website description doesn’t seem so inviting and it’s kind of expensive so I haven’t been yet. The Yoga Room has been posting videos on YouTube so I made a spot in my home office so I can practice for about 30 minutes. I made a playlist of several different things to work on and plan on going through those as I can. It felt good to stretch and to hear Zelinda’s voice. She’s very calming. I have some Gaiam videos from Sarah so I’ll work with those as well. I should probably look into getting a block and maybe a strap ’cause faking a strap and using a Harry Potter book as a block doesn’t work too well.

    Next up, score study again. I have a lot to catch up on with my study because I didn’t get to do any over the break like I’d intended. I’m going to be conducting Vaughan Williams’ English Folk Song Suite in February with the Symphonic Band. I’ll post the date when I find my notebook (I think it’s in my backpack) – it would be nice to have old school friendly faces in the audience as well as my new friends.

    Okay, gotta get back to work and ride the wave of feeling accomplished! 🙂

    Love you, mean it!
    ~C

    Renewal

    I think Dr. Oz is a pretty smart guy. The health tips he gives are fairly easy and make sense and I love that he takes a moment and explains (in English) why it works. In my Oprah newsletter today, she gives a link to her website of “Dr. Oz’s 28-Day Plan to Renew Your Body, Mind and Soul” and I’ve decided to give it a try. One thing everyday – some of them are new habits to work into your routine, some are just things to keep in mind and work into your life in smaller doses (in my opinion).

    Here’s the link to the webpage I’m pulling this from. Since each day is a new image you and you have to click through 30 pages to see it all, and that’s kind of tedious, I’m going to lay it all out for you and me here.

    Day 1:
    Go Green!

    As in green tea. Because these tea leaves aren’t fermented like black and oolong teas, they contain the highest concentration of powerful antioxidants called catechins. Studies have shown that drinking green tea is associated with a lower risk for some cancers. Other research suggests that downing multiple cups daily can lower “bad” (LDL) cholesterol and promote weight loss. If the astringent taste most of us are familiar with is a turnoff, turn the page for an assortment of delicious green tea blends.

    Dr. Oz’s 6 favorite green teas
    *PERSONAL NOTE: Plain Japanese green tea is my favorite and I’m very fortunate to have access to some really good teas straight from Japan.*

    Day 2:
    Indulge in Dark Chocolate

    Here’s an eye-opener: For years studies have shown that flavonols, the antioxidant-rich compounds found in cocoa, improve circulation. Now new research indicates that because those compounds increase blood flow to the brain, they may also help you see more clearly. Two and a half hours after consuming 720 milligrams of flavonols (the amount in about one ounce of dark chocolate), study participants’ visual function and ability to detect motion direction improved dramatically.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I love dark chocolate and try to have a little bit each day. Now I can do that with NO GUILT!!*

    Day 3:
    Cook for Your Heart

    Certain foods do wonders for your veins and arteries, promoting blood flow throughout your body. To make a meal packed with heart-healthy nutrients, start with these four ingredients.

    Wild Salmon
    It’s full of omega-3s, your arterial system’s handymen. They lower triglycerides (which contribute to plaque buildup) and can make platelets less sticky (to reduce clotting).

    Tomatoes
    Hypertension patients who consumed tomato extract saw at least a ten-point drop in their systolic pressure and four-point fall in their diastolic pressure.

    Garlic
    The pungent clove is thought to protect against atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries), a condition that can lead to heart disease and stroke.

    Lima Beans
    One cup contains about 30 percent of the recommended dietary allowance of magnesium, a mineral that triggers vasodilation, easing the strain on your heart.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I try to incorporate tomatoes and garlic regularly but need to find somewhere in Huntsville, TX that I can get some good fish. Not sure about the lima beans, though….*

    Day 4:
    Forgive Someone

    Studies show that forgiveness can lower blood pressure and heart rate and reduce depression, anxiety, and anger. I think Oprah articulated the secret to releasing grudges when she said, “Forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past can be changed.”
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I can think of one person I probably need to forgive but I’m still so angry about what she did to so many of us, I’m not sure if I can forgive her yet. This one is going to be hard.*

    Day 5:
    Memorize a Poem

    Give yourself a cognitive boost—and invigorate your spirit—by committing a bit of poetry to memory. For starters:

    The way of love is not
    A subtle argument.

    The door there
    Is devastation.

    Birds make great sky-circles
    Of their freedom. How do they learn that?

    They fall, and falling,
    They’re given wings.

    —Rumi
    *PERSONAL NOTE: Never been a fan of poetry – I just don’t get it. Brad couldn’t understand why I didn’t like or understand poetry but that’s okay because he doesn’t like or get jazz. I’ll give it a try with this poem from Rumi, though.*

    Day 6:
    Get Busy Getting Busy

    Laura Berman, PhD, host of OWN’s In the Bedroom, shares some advice on having much more of a great thing.

    “Sex is not only beneficial for your relationship. People who enjoy it twice a week may get a boost to their immune system, according to a Wilkes University study. And women who are less satisfied sexually are more likely to have plaque buildup in their arteries. The most common roadblock people complain about is a busy schedule. Get around that by picking a time and date with your partner. The buildup will compensate for the lack of spontaneity. And remember: No partner doesn’t mean no sex. This is about health and happiness, so don’t be afraid to take care of yourself.”
    *PERSONAL NOTE: That’s for me to know.*

    Day 7:
    Write Every Bite, Scribble Every Nibble

    Chips from your mate’s plate, a granola bar from the vending machine—it’s so easy to mindlessly munch. But people who track what they eat can lose twice as much weight as those who don’t, one study showed. A notebook will do the trick, but if you need more bells and whistles, check out these sites:

    PEERtrainer
    Join one of thousands of goal-oriented teams (like Beachbody Challenge and Over 50!) to boost your drive and find support when you need it.

    Lose It!
    Straightforward and easy to customize, this app and site motivates with badges (“10 Pound Club”) that you can share with friends who are members, too.

    DailyBurn
    Talk about convenient: The FoodScanner app ($.99) allows you to update your log by simply scanning an item’s bar code. DailyBurn’s database has more than 600,000 foods.

    SparkPeople
    Personalized diet plans help you tackle “SparkStreaks,” small suggested daily goals like curbing late-night snacking.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I used to use SparkPeople and it’s good. Maybe I should see if I can figure out my password and get back to it.*

    Day 8:
    Sweat, Even Just a Bit

    You might be surprised how little exercise it takes to do a body good. Just a daily 30-minute walk at a brisk pace can keep you from gaining weight and reduce your risk of stroke and heart attack by 30 percent. (To gauge whether you’re working hard enough, do the “talk test”: You should be able to speak but not sing.) A walk will do your body image good, too. University of Florida researcher Heather Hausenblas, PhD, found that the simple act of exercise—whether hiking a mountain or strolling around the neighborhood—led subjects to rate their own appearance higher than before.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: Now that we’re back in Huntsville and school is about to start back, I plan on taking Clipford for his walk during the week. I’m also going to get back to swimming once the pool opens in February. Until then, I guess I’ll spend a bit of time each week working out in the gym. I wish The Yoga Room had a location here!*

    Day 9:
    Get More Sleep

    Forget counting sheep. Busy people share their best tricks for catching z’s.

    “My sister, who’s a chef, taught me how to make tea with dried chamomile flowers by letting them steep for an entire day. It’s a powerful but natural sleeping aid. I always drink a cup before bed.”

    —Rosie Perez, actress
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I find focusing on your breath helps me sleep. I really pay attention to nothing else except my breath and the air in and out of my lungs. It helps clear my brain of all the random thoughts that keep me awake and I’ve learned to sleep fairly quickly this way.*

    Day 10:
    Meditate

    Long embraced for its stress-busting powers, meditation has also been shown to lower blood pressure and bad cholesterol. If sitting solo for five minutes a day seems more baffling than blissful, use these tools to strengthen your om.

    How to Meditate (Sounds True): On five CDs, renowned meditation teacher and Buddhist nun Pema Chödrön shares hours of information and guided meditations that develop your skills, as well as tips for silencing distractions.

    Insight Timer: The app’s chime notifications make closed-eye meditation easier (no need to check the clock), while a world map connects you with a community of users meditating at the same time.

    A Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Workbook (New Harbinger): Perfect for beginners, this step-by-step guide is loaded with exercises and space for recording daily reflections. Your initial ranking of life’s stressors becomes a reference for measuring your progress.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: Meditation works but I find it hard to make time for just sitting and doing nothing. I guess it’s time for a mindset change on how I view meditation.*

    Day 11:
    Don’t Graze Before Bed

    People who eat at night gain three and a half more pounds a year, on average, than those who don’t, according to one study. Both body and mind stand to benefit from an earlier meal: Eating 70 minutes to two hours prior to bedtime could decrease your risk of stroke by 76 percent. One possible explanation: Blood sugar, cholesterol, and circulation changes brought on by the digestive process may disrupt blood flow to the brain.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: This one is a bad habit for me. I like to watch TV at night and when I watch TV, I nibble. Gotta break that habit!*

    Day 12:
    Know Your Portions

    In America we love big houses, big cars, and, maybe most of all, big meals. But you can break the overeating habit by learning to recognize proper serving sizes. Here’s a cheat sheet to help you remember how much to put on your plate.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I have large plates that I like to fill. I need to use my small plates.*

    Day 13:
    Count Your Paces

    Taking 10,000 steps a day is associated with everything from a slimmer frame to better blood pressure levels to increased insulin sensitivity. Yet the average American woman walks a paltry 4,912 steps a day. The easiest way to see how you measure up—and nudge yourself toward that 10,000-step goal—is by clipping on a pedometer. I found three that can help you hit your stride….

    If you like data: fitbit
    Wirelessly sync your pedometer with your computer to chart and graph every step taken and calorie burned on its robust site—and compare your data to other demographics. ($100; fitbit.com)

    If you like simplicity: Omron
    Long the gold standard for accuracy, Omron is the pedometer favored by Oprah’s trainer, Bob Greene. Intuitive buttons and a large display make the HJA-301 model easy to use, and its memory lets you store a week’s worth of data. ($40; omronwebstore.com)

    If you like rewards: S2H Step
    Hit 10,000 steps and you’ll get a code to swap for points online. Rack up enough points and you can redeem them for a rotating list of prizes, like gift cards to Sears, Target, and Lowe’s. ($25; s2h.com)
    *PERSONAL NOTE: Swap points? Yes, please! And at $25, I can afford it on my college budget!*

    Day 14:
    Interview Your Relatives

    Your family history provides hints about what your genes might have in store for you. Talk to your relatives (including cousins, great-uncles, great-aunts) about any serious illnesses they’ve suffered. The U.S. Surgeon General offers an online tool (familyhistory.hhs.gov) that will compile your notes into a report, which you can then print for your doctor. If any of these issues run in your family, it’s never too early to start reducing your risk:

    Hypertension
    Check your blood pressure every year, and follow your doctor’s orders: Even a five-point reduction in your systolic pressure can translate to a 9 percent drop in your risk of coronary heart disease and a 14 percent drop in your risk of dying from stroke.

    Breast cancer
    The American Institute for Cancer Research estimates that 38 percent of breast cancer cases could be prevented by maintaining a healthy weight, exercising, and drinking less alcohol.

    Diabetes
    Commit to losing belly fat, a predictor of the disease. For postmenopausal women, strength training is especially important because muscle, which we lose with age, burns more calories than fat.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: Yup. Gotta write it down, too.*

    Day 15:
    Take the Right Pills

    As you navigate the alphabet soup of the vitamin aisle, pick up these three bottles: a multivitamin, calcium with magnesium, and vitamin D. Then, depending on your health, your genes, and your doctor’s advice, you may want to supplement those supplements. Here are 4 questions to shape your shopping list.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I had someone who wasn’t feeling well they took Vitamin C because they were eating oranges and drinking orange juice. Doesn’t cut it when you’re feeling well. Sometimes, you just have to take a supplement.*

    Day 16:
    Calculate Your BMI

    Divide your weight in pounds by your height in inches squared. Then multiply that figure by 703.

    The result is your body mass index—a rough assessment of how much fat you’re carrying on your frame. A BMI between 25 and 29.9 indicates you are overweight; 30 or greater means you are obese. But if your number is over 25, keep in mind this encouraging fact: Dropping just a fraction of your weight can have a dramatic impact on your overall health.

    Lose 5 percent of your body weight and you can…
    improve your body’s ability to use insulin (the hormone that moves glucose into cells to be metabolized), lowering your risk of type 2 diabetes.

    Lose 11 percent of your body weight and you can…
    significantly lower your blood pressure, reduce your risk of dying from cardiovascular disease by 21 percent, and slash your risk of dying from all causes by 25 percent.

    Lose 16 percent of your body weight and you can…
    experience a nearly threefold increase in your levels of vitamin D, which may be key to helping prevent everything from migraines to Parkinson’s disease.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I got my BMI figured out the other day via a website calculator and I’m at the top of the “healthy” category. Gotta lower that number a bit so I’m at the mid-range of “healthy”.*

    Day 17:
    Tweak Your Daily Routine

    By making these three small substitutions, you’ll experience big long-term rewards.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: Done, done and not very often, thank you allergens.*

    Day 18:
    Pass the Popcorn

    Here’s some math you’ll like: For the same number of calories (about 90), you can eat nine potato chips or three cups of air-popped (and fiber-packed) popcorn. Put a quarter cup of kernels in a paper lunch bag and fold over the top. Microwave on high for about two minutes or until the kernels stop popping. Then coat with cooking spray, sprinkle on garlic salt or cinnamon, and voilà—cravings curbed.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I just had air popped popcorn for the first time in forever over the Christmas break and it was SO good, I’m switching from microwaved popcorn immediately!*

    Day 19:
    Pack a Smarter Lunch

    Attention, brown baggers: Researchers at Cornell University’s Food and Brand Lab have extensively studied our lunching habits. Read their tips on prepping a better midday meal.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I either take my lunch or eat at home as often as possible. Other than just being healthier, it’s so much cheaper than eating out!*

    Day 20:
    Automate Your Breakfast

    You already know it’s the most important meal of the day. (Skipping breakfast can increase your risk for obesity more than fourfold.) But it turns out that making it the same meal every day is a good idea, too. Research shows that people who’ve successfully maintained at least a 30-pound weight loss for a year or more tend to consume a diet with limited variety; similar meals over and over may lead them to feel fuller faster and eat less overall. Try making one of these options part of your A.M. ritual.

    Grapefruit with Greek yogurt
    This combo gives you healthy doses of vitamin C, lycopene (an antioxidant with anticancer benefits), and probiotics—good bacteria that aid in digestion and may boost your immunity.

    Get the recipe for a Blueberry and Banana Smoothie
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I started making a point to eat breakfast every day last school year and I find that I have more energy through the day and when I exercise, things work better.*

    Day 21:
    Purge Your Pantry

    All you need is an hour and a garbage bag. Check the first three ingredients of all packaged items and toss if any of them are “sugar” or…

    End in –ose
    These are also added sugars, full of empty calories. (Two exceptions are the naturally occurring sugars lactose, found in milk, and fructose, found in fruit and vegetables.) Make sure you take an especially close look at the labels on low-fat products. Manufacturers often pack these items with added sugars to make up for lost flavor.

    End in –ol
    These are sugar alcohols, which are chemically different from regular sugars—meaning they can be included in products labeled “sugar-free.” But while sugar alcohols are lower in calories gram for gram, they can be just as fattening when consumed in large quantities. They can also lead to bloating and diarrhea.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: When I was in my undergrad, I did a serious purge of my food and I probably need to do it again. I do try to avoid adding anything to my food that is processed so no diet type foods and artificial sweeteners.*

    Day 22:
    Call an Old Friend

    A study conducted in the Spanish village of San Pedro Manrique serves as a reminder of the power of connection: During an annual fire-walking ritual, scientists strapped heart-rate monitors on people about to dash across the coals, their friends and relatives, and visiting spectators. Amazingly, the heart rates of the fire walkers and their friends and relatives started to synchronize, rising and falling at almost the same moments. It goes to show that our relationships manifest in more ways than we know. Don’t underestimate the impact that you and your loved ones have on each other. Reach out to someone you haven’t talked to in a while and spend an hour or two rebuilding your bond.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: Your oldest friends are sometimes the most precious. Don’t let guilt of not talking in a while keep you from calling.*

    Day 23:
    Clean to Protect

    Not flossing doesn’t just spell bad news for your mouth—bacteria there can make it into your bloodstream. Yet only about half of Americans floss regularly, and many of us do it incorrectly. New York prosthodontist Jonathan Levine shows us all the right moves:

    1. Wrap 18 inches of floss around your middle fingers. Push the floss through the tight space between two teeth (called the contact).

    2. Hook the floss around one tooth in a C shape and slide it under the gum line. Then move it back and forth over the tooth’s surface, in a motion similar to shining a shoe.

    3. Before you pull the floss back through the contact, slide under the neighboring tooth’s gum line and repeat the shoe-shining motion.

    Look What We Found!
    Nothing trumps manual flossing, but Philips Sonicare AirFloss lets you point and shoot plaque away with minimal effort. To use, fill the side chamber with water or mouthwash, rest the tip between two teeth, and press a button: A microshot of liquid blasts away biofilm, letting you floss your whole mouth in just 60 seconds.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I have several different types of floss picks that I use and love, thanks to a recommendation from my dentist. I think they’re made by Oral B.*

    Day 24:
    Look Before You Flush

    Wondering what’s really going down in your digestive system? Look no further than your toilet bowl. The size and color of your stool can reveal whether you should make dietary changes (small, hard stools can indicate a lack of fiber) or be checked for a serious illness. Consult your doctor if you see any of the colors listed here.

    Color and Possible Condition:

    Red Bleeding in the lower gastrointestinal tract; diverticulosis

    Green Crohn’s disease

    Cream Gallbladder dysfunction

    White Pancreatitis; pancreatic cancer

    Black Bleeding in the upper gastrointestinal tract
    *PERSONAL NOTE: No comment, except trust Dr. Oz on this one.*

    Day 25:
    Practice Saying No

    You’ve heard this a hundred times before—and you just heard Oprah say it to me! But I’m going to tell you again because I believe it is vitally important: No matter how busy you are, you must make time for yourself. If you don’t, you’ll start to suffer from chronic stress. And chronic stress can lead to an imbalance in your cortisol (a “fight or flight” hormone) levels, which can wreak havoc on your mood and energy. Bottom line: Sometimes you need to say no—to your colleagues, your friends, your family—for the sake of your health.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: This is a tough one for educators, maybe even more especially band directors because we want to do everything we know needs to be done to help our students be more successful. BUT, you can’t help anyone else if you’re not in a good place for yourself. There has to be a balance between work and personal and sometimes, to achieve that balance, you have to say no to somethings.*

    Day 26:
    Stretch!

    It will improve your flexibility, of course—but it will also make you stronger. All you need is seven to ten minutes every morning when you get out of bed. You can make up your own routine or use mine. Try Dr. Oz’s morning stretching routine.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I’ve been practicing yoga off and on for about 7 years now and have been doing purposeful stretches for most of my life. Stretching is good.*

    Day 27:
    Pledge Never to Be Hungry

    Trying to find a nutritious snack when you’re on the go is setting yourself up for failure. Instead, I make it a point to always travel with an arsenal of satisfying eats. See 6 healthy, easy single-serving snacks you can always have at the ready.
    *PERSONAL NOTE: I carry granola bars most times I leave the house. I can throw a bar or two in my back pack and if I get a little hungry, I have a quick, healthy snack. :)*

    Day 28:
    Spread Kindness

    Help a stranger with directions. Hold the elevator doors. Unburden someone struggling to hoist groceries into the car. You know lending a hand can boost your mood, but a recent study out of the University of California, San Diego, suggests that random acts of kindness can also be contagious: When research participants acted cooperatively, in the public good, their positive intention cascaded outward, influencing up to three more degrees of helpful people. And while you can’t always linger to see the effects your good deed has on a person, two O readers share what a stranger’s kindness meant to them:

    “When I was a teenager, I got kicked out of ballet rehearsal for chewing gum. I was moping around the city, killing time until my friends got out, when I passed a homeless man. He reached out his hand, and I assumed he was asking for money—but instead he pointed at me and said, ‘Don’t worry, sweetie.’ That memory always stuck with me, and now I carry loose change for every homeless person I see.”
    —Jessica Duncan, 25, New York City

    “While driving in 2008, I suffered a cerebral stroke and my car crashed into a wall. A woman pulled over and called 911. She opened the door, took my hand, and asked if she could pray for me. An ambulance came shortly after, and I eventually recovered from paralysis. I call that woman my angel. Today I run a foundation that benefits the elderly and the handicapped, because I know how important it is to help those in need.”
    —Dick Warden, 70, San Diego
    *PERSONAL NOTE: Spreading happiness creates internal happiness. A smile (even a little faked) raises endorphins and creates a real smile. Kindness fosters more kindness.*