Father’s Day

Daddy-o

Ah yes, Dads. A person, whithout whom, we would not be on the earth without. The person in our lives that does a lot of work, yet when someon gets 30 seconds on TV, we always shout “Hi MOM!!!”. Dads really don’t get the credit they deserve but today, this is their day.

My dad is pretty nifty. He taught me how to use power tools and multiplication and physics. He taught me to stick to my guns when I know I’m right and that fair doesn’t always mean equal…but to try to be as equal as possible. He supports me regardless of if he knows if I’m going to follow through or not (do you know how much sporting equipment he’s purchased for his kids? It’s all now in a closet…). He taught me how to write and how to not be afraid of anything I encounter. Don’t ever challenge my dad to a roller skating race because you’ll lose. But if you ask him to teach you to skate, he’ll stay right with you, no matter what his goals for that day are. I could go on about how awesome my dad is but that would take 33 years for me to really explain.

Also, I want to wish all the other dads a great big HAPPY FATHER’S DAY. I know your kids love you as much as I love my dad!

Soup

I know it’s summer and all but there’s something about making soup that is very nurturing to me. See, I’ve had a real bad case of allergies like I’ve never had before. Half my face and parts of my legs and arms have broken out in hives in the last two days. My dad & I are working to heal it wholistically and although it’s a process that takes longer than conventional medicines, I end up feeling better and more importantly, being better in the long run. These hives are coming from the new environment of this house and I’m sure the relief of a lot of stress I’ve been under the last few months (or even year) also helps a body release whatever toxins it’s been holding in.

So, soup. I went on a fruit and water fast for the past 24 hours and once it was up, I really felt like having soup. I had a few chicken legs in the freezer and decided that I was going to make myself some chicken soup. I cut an onion, carrots, and boiled the chicken until if fell off the bone. My house smells so good right now!

The swelling has gone down quite a bit but I still look like a wreck. I feel much better, although I haven’t eaten any soup yet. I guess making it was as good for my soul as eating it will be.

So, keep good thoughts coming my way as I get used to the new house. This too, shall pass.

Damnit Kelly…

2 Things
If you opened it, you have to do it.

Two Names You Go By:
1. Cathy
2. Benford

Two Parts of Your Heritage:
1. Japanese
2. British

Two Things You Are Wearing Right Now:
1. T-shirt
2. shorts

Two Things You Would Want in a Relationship:
1. honesty
2. understanding

Two of Your Favorite Hobbies:
1. band
2. scuba

Two Things You Want Really Badly At The Moment:
~ nothing at this moment, actually

Two pets you had/have:
1. Pfema
2. Stanley

Two people who will fill this out:
1. Trish
2. Skippy

Two things you did last night:
1. Helped Kristina with physics
2. went for dessert with Kristina

Two people who live in your house:
1. me
2. and the cats (don’t tell them they’re not people)

Two things you ate today:
1. salad
2. cereal

Two people you Last Talked To:
1. my mom
2. my dad

Two Things You’re doing tomorrow:
1. work on the “to do list”
2. lay out

Two longest car rides:
1. going to Denver with Cathy in 1996
2. on tour with Revolution (4 weeks on a bus)

Two Favorite Holidays:
1. Christmas
2. my birthday

Two Things You Can’t Live Without:
1. Family
2. Friends
(I agree with Kelly)

Merkaba Lounge & Grill

Merkaba Lounge & Grill; Austin, TX

Today, I went to lunch at Merkaba Lounge & Grill. Actually, I’ve eaten there a few times and if you’ve come to either of my parties as of late, so have you. 🙂 It’s a new place in North Austin and it is excellent. (I’m not just saying that because a friend owns it, either.)

For lunch, I had their Grilled Chicken Sandwich – a marinated grilled chicken breast with lettuce & tomato on a toasted kaiser roll. I didn’t get any cheese on it but you can add cheddar or pepper jack for just a few cents more. The chicken was tender and flavorfull and their kaiser roll was mildly sweet but didn’t overwhelm the flavor of the marinade on the chicken. With the sandwiches, you can get either homemade potato chips or the sweet potato fries. I went with the sweet potato fries and they were amazing. I’m not a big fan of mixing sweet and savory flavors but this wasn’t quite that. The naturally sweetness of the sweet potato really blended well with the seasoned salt they sprinkled (not doused) on there. There was a light breading on the fries that also only accentuated the flavor of the sweet potato. Their lunch prices range from $3.00 (soups) to $9.00 (Bourbon Street Steak Sandwich).

If you’re just up for appetizers, they have “Tapas of the World” there. You can get one item for $4.99 or three choices for $12.99. Lots of things to choose from, too. As of right now, I’ve tried the Asian Potstickers, Asian Calamari (comes with a Thai chili sauce), Asian Spring Rolls, Italian Rosemary Chicken Ravioli with a pesto cream sauce (that isn’t overwhelming like a lot of pesto sauces are), and the Spanish spring rolls with cilantro ranch dressing. OMG, the cilantro ranch dressing is TO DIE FOR!!! I can’t remember who said they’re not a big fan of the cilantro flavor but they still really liked this dressing because again, the cilantro flavor is blended well, not overwhelming.

As far as entrees go, I’ve had one full dinner and was there one day when their manager Trisha was doing final training of the kitchen staff. Raspberry Chipotle Salmon with rice pilaf and fresh steamed vegetables is great. I would probably order it without the raspberry sauce – no matter where I try it, I’m not a fan…it’s the sweet + savory thing I don’t like, though. I might try that sauce on a cheesecake or something; by itself, it’s yummy. Their Sesame Chicken with seasoned rice and steamed thai chili vegetables is the full dinner I had and it’s really good. The way the seasonings are balanced still keeps the chicken flavor abundant as well. The chicken itself is moist and tender. You can cut it with your fork! The Thai chili vegetables are not too spicy but certainly not bland. Oh, their Bourbon Street NY Strip steak is SO good. They marinate their steak overnight so it’s nice and juicy and tender. I only had a bite or two of it but I could go back for that whole dish anytime. It comes with seasoned potato wedges and steamed veggies as well. Their dinner prices range from $9.99 to $14.99.

They have desserts that I haven’t had a chance to try yet but the first thing I’m going to try is their Pina Colada Cake.

Now, let’s talk drinks. They have two walls of various beers on tap as well as many that are bottled. Their bartenders are trained to make about any drink you might want. They also have their own list of specialty martinis and my favorite is the Absolut Citron Lemon Drop Martini. My man Anthony can make a mean lemon drop martini for a man who doesn’t like them. 😉 And then, you have their Specialty Chocolate Shots – Chocolate Covered Cherry, Chocolate Covered Almond, Chocolate Covered Banana and Chocolate Orange. The fun part of this drink is that each one is just a shot of whatever flavor is listed with chocolate but it’s in a shot “glass” made entirely of chocolate. Once you drink your shot, you eat the chocolate!!! Now, how much fun is that? Again – YUMMY!! Here’s a picture of our shots that we got one night:

Chocolate Shots

Okay, this post has gotten entirely too long and because it has no pictures (except the last one), you’ve probably not even gotten to here. I know, I’ll get pictures of their food and create them a page via my site until we get a site of their own up and running. Stay tuned for that and if you want to go to Merkaba, let me know. I’ll go with you and bring you a coupon for 10% off food!

The housewarming shin-dig

Well, since Connie and Monica have posted about my party already, maybe I should as well! I’d post pictures of people and things about my party but since I didn’t actually designate anyone to take pics, they didn’t happen. Oh well. Actually, Daniel Montoya has one picture (of my computer & desk for John Mackey) and I’m sure he’ll post that to his blog when he’s done watching movies and is ready to write his wrap-up of my party.

So, the party was GREAT! About 30 or so folks came by and we all ate, drank and had great conversation. I didn’t get to sit and talk to any one person (or group of people) for very long but gave many tours of the house – thank you all for all your compliments – and watched that indeed, my house does have a nice flow for company. It felt very good to have all my friends over, enjoying themselves.

My friends were also very generous with their gift giving. I know people bring gifts to housewarmings but honestly, all I really wanted was for folks to come by and have fun at my new home – mi casa es su casa. I did take some pics today of things I’ve received so here they are:

The braided hibiscus from Debbie & Suzi:
Hibiscus - Debbie & Suzi A yellow flower!!

The hanging vinca from Pam:
Vinca - Pam

Cool cards from everyone, some with gift cards inside!
Cool cards - some with gift cards inside.  :)

Lots of wine & liquor!! There are even more bottles in the fridge….
Lots of liquor!

And, from the Millers’, Lemons in a Copper Bowl by Connie Miller (C. Miller):
Lemons in Copper Bowl - C. Miller

I’m guessing that I, the master of all avoidance of writing Thank You cards, should probably not avoid it this time around. I’ve always been bad about doing them. Now that I’m an adult and with house, I should probably not be bad about this anymore, huh? Okay, to find stationary and just do it. Some folks (Montoya brothers, Lomelis & friends, etc.), I don’t think I have your address. Please email me with it (big_benford@yahoo.com) so I can send out cards properly. I did find that Evite allows me to send out global Thank Yous (which I did) but I’d still like to take a moment to write out cards.

Well, the clean up process is about done. I still have all the bottles and such recycling to take to the garage for recycling on Tuesday. There are lots of bottles to be recycled!!

Recycling

Also, on a house specific note, I have three crepe myrtles in the back yard and one in the front. Two have started blooming today! I’m very excited…I love the colors so far!

Large tree in back Smallest tree of the collection

Don’t you love my backyard neighbors? No neighbors, actually. Just a big water tower and some other type of tower that my mom’s worried is going to radiate me.

Pfema wants out

And, in true John Mackey style (we all have to copy a great photo blog a little, huh?), here is my cat Pfema. He wants to come out and check out the new flowers as well!

Thank you all so much for helping make my house feel like home. It’s great to have you all around and I’d like to keep it up. To all those that missed the party, you missed a great one, but there will be others and you will be required to attend! 😉 Until the next post….

~~~~~~~~~~Addition!!~~~~~~~~~~
I absolutely forgot to mention the most useful gift I received. It is from Naomi…a 12 pack of toilet paper. She lived in Korea for several years and they have a tradition of giving practical gifts for housewarmings. How appropriate – a gift everyone can use! 🙂
Toilet paper from Naomi!